Both places are places where I feel comfortable. Both contain people I love. I eat and drink and sleep at both.
One is technically my home, the other is technically not. Consequently, neither feels right anymore. I know all the adages, all the turns-of-phrases...home is where the heart is, wherever I lay my hat (that's my home), etc etc etc. What makes your home your home?
PS. Hi, sorry I haven't been around much. Bad Claire.